Saturday, April 12, 2008

HOW TO COMMUNICATE IN ENGLISH SUCCESSFULLY !

You meet an English person in the street and he needs your help to find the way to somewhere. How can you direct him?

You join an English club and have a friend-making party. What do you say to build a good relationship with everyone?

You apply for the job in a foreign company. What will you say to have a successful interview?

Remember that knowing English is quite different... from being able to speak it fluently, smoothly, continuously.

In my opinion, two keys making your communication skills better are:

- How to speak English fluently.

- How to make others understand you perfectly?

* Firstly, you must know the way to master English fluency:

If you want to have a good command of speaking English, it’s not enough that you just pick up a lot of knowledge of English. You'll have to master fluency techniques — the techniques that help you maintain fluency while you are speaking English. It is discovered that the secret of fluency is not classroom speech practice, but mastery of fluency techniques — in real-life situations.

+ An important thing is that you must have enough vocabulary. It is too difficult for you to speak with your lack of words.

+ Don't be shy, stay calm and speak whatever you like, think about. Remember this: Mistakes of grammar, usage, vocabulary... are all ‘externally noticeable mistakes’ — mistakes that a teacher can notice and correct. But you know, ‘externally noticeable mistakes’ like these are not the real reasons that make your speaking difficult. The real reasons are internal mistakes, difficulties and problems that can occur when your mind tries to compose speech before it is delivered.

+ If you are still embarrassed, you can imagine a case and play role in front of a mirror. Have you ever tried those actions?

+ Try to think in English, put your mind in English

+ Reading newspapers and watching movies in English can help you create a habit to communicate in English. You can imitate their tones of voice as well as the way they pronounce to improve yourself.

+ Speak louder, don't worry about your speaking speed at first, make sure that you pronounce exactly. When you are better, begin to speak with high speed step by step.

+ Joining clubs and working in group are good ways to improve your speaking. There are many discussions, debates that encourage you to speak. The members in club will help you do better.

+ Talk as much as possible to foreigners whenever you get a chance.

* The second thing is the ability you make everyone understand what you say. I think some following information will help you much:

+ Speak clearly and pronounce your words correctly. Exaggerated pronunciations will not help your listener and may cause confusion.

+ Do not use informal talk or incorrect English. This does not make you easier to understand. It will confuse your listener and may give the wrong impression about your own level of competence.

+ Avoid running words together ( Do-ya wanna eat-a-pizza?). One of the biggest challenges for listeners is knowing where one word ends and the next one begins. Give them a small pause between words if they seem to be struggling.

+ As possible, opt for simple words instead of ones those are complex. The more basic a word is, the more easily we can understand it, for example instead of saying " play a trick on s.o", you can say simply " cheat s.o". When there are words that sound the same but are spelled differently, write the word down to avoid confusion: 'bear' and 'bare', for instance. If those two words are pronounced slightly differently in your accent, mention this.

+ If asked to repeat something, first repeat it as you said it the first time. Then say it again. It could be that they simply didn't hear you. If your listener still doesn't understand, however, change a few key words in the sentence by using their synonyms. Also repeat the whole sentence and not just the last couple of words. It's time consuming, but it helps prevent confusion. Afterthat if they still don't understand, you can draw or write what you say on paper. Of course, it is the last way. Remember to keep a good attitude and be friendly. Impatience will inhibit your ability to communicate and can alienate your listener. The more relaxed you are, the more you are in control of your communication.

+ Make more gestures than normal when speaking, especially your body language.Often it's possible to understand just by catching a couple of words and seeing the gestures. such as you can say " really? uh huh, yeah, I see, " or nob your head, smile....so on.



I hope those will help you partly. I am very happy if you can share your ideas about that topic with all of people.

You can get more information with those books:


B1: Idea units & Fluency
B2: Speech Generation & Flow Production
B3: Teaching your Tongue & Speech Rhythm
B4: Key Speech-initiators & Speech-unit Patterns
S1: Fluency in Functional English (Vol.1)
S2: Fluency in Functional English (Vol.2)
S3: Fluency in Telephone English and Sectoral English
B5: How to Deal with Hesitation
B6: Oral Training in Fluency Vocabulary (Vol.1)
B7: Packing of Information in Speech
B8: Impromptu Speech-flow Techniques
S4: Fluency Building and Mouth Gymnastics
S5: Fluency in speaking about people
B9: Fluency in Asking Questions
B10: Oral Training in Fluency Vocabulary (Vol.2)
B11: Fluency & Moment-to-Moment Speech-production
B12: Oral Training in Fluency Vocabulary (Vol.3)
S6: Fluency in Topicwise English (Vol.1)
S7: Fluency & Pronunciation
S8: Fluency in Topicwise English (Vol.2)

(writer: ho ut- thu quynh, using some information from www.wikihow.com/communicate-with-a-non-native-english-speaker)

12 comments:

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Anonymous said...

-English man thay vi English person
-How can you direct him thay vi how do direct him
-"They will organize a making friend party" sentence needs repairing
-Able to speaking it fluently nen bo tu it di
-To keys that...nen duoc sua thanh: 2 keys making your communication skill better are..
-You must know the way... cau do dung "tame" thi that la kho hiu. Nen sua lai. Co the thay the la: U must know the way how to master Eng with fluency
-If you want to achieve... sua thanh If you want to be good command of Eng (good command of Eng means thong thao tieng anh)
-A lot of knowledge of Eng thay bang knowledge of using/understanding Eng
-While speaking Eng la okay rui
-The discovery that... cau nay nghe kho hiu va ngu phap co ve nhap nhang wa. Viet no lai di
-An importtand thing ... cau nay viet dai dong va sai grammar mat rui
-Thay vi noi remember this thi noi la Do remember de nhan manh y nghia
mistakes that teacher can be able to...Nhung cau nay nghe co ve ko hay cho lam
-...are not the real reason make you speak Eng influent
-The real reason is that internal...(menh de bat dau bang that) chu ko the noi la is this...
-Mistakes, problems... can occur when...
-Have u ever tried those actions?
-Reading newspaper, watching movies can help you create a habit...
-You can imitate the way native speakers pronounce as long as their tones of voice
-"don't worry about speed first" cau nay kho hiu wa
-formal English chu hok pai good english
-Joining clubs and... are good ways for you to improve your speaking skill because$ convenient communication environment could be created
-Talk Eng as much as possible to foreigners whenever you get chance
-May cause confusion la duoc roi ko can dung them more dau
-Baby talk???(what's it), nen dung la informal Eng chu ko nen noi incorrect Eng
-You should opt for simple words instead of complex ones as possible chu ko ai noi la when possible
-The more simple the word is, the plainer it is
-Write down the words chu hok pai write the words down
-"If asked to...first time" cau nay kho hiu qua. Can pai sua lai, con may con con lai cua doan nay thi okay
-Your expression skill will get better when using more gestures and body language...
My comments: Your work has lots of mistakes:
+ Grammar mistakes
+ Words lacking. Repeating one word more than 2 times in one paragraph
+ Using wrong article
+ Using informal English
+ Many sentences do not make sense
+ Write capital character after punctuation mark (very important)
+ Should use more noun phrases instead of single word
Chi la y kien ca nhan cua tao thui, may co the discuss voi fellow member cua may roi sua lai bai nay. Noi chung la cung co nhieu cho de sua lam day...
Good luck to you guys ^_^

Anonymous said...

You can imitate the way native speakers pronounce as long as their tones of voice. CAu nay sua lai thanh along with their tones of voice nhe. Tao viet as long as la sai mat ui. hehe

3snakesand1cat said...

Whoopee! Good job. I've never expect to get such a great experience. Thanks.
However, just like someone said already, you made some mistakes. So, if I were you, I would review before posting.
Hope you find more useful and interesting tips for us.
Love.

lilly said...

hello!IT 's so great when i can read a lot of informations from your blog.But, i think that it's too long for us to be patient to read all of them.It 'll be better if you can shorten them but totally it's absolute useful for us to improve our speaking in english.Thanks a lot

F.l.y.i.n.G K.i.t.e.S said...

oh, how great this entry is! This is very useful 4 us and it analyzes students' problem in speaking deeply. I can also find the solutions for my own difficulties of speaking here ^^

Thanks so much !

Anonymous said...

hello every body
I'm Leonadad_hungreo
I very very bad in english.But I have felt "like _like" untill i read this entry.HI HI.It very interesteing..He He.Thank you very much...

Unknown said...

My name is Thao Luong. I was a student at this university 5 months ago, now I am studying abroad. From my experiences,I strongly believe that Vietnamese students are a little bit shy to communicate with foreigners. I recommend that you pratice! Just by practice, your skills can be improved! Your infomation is very useful, it helps you know how to practice and improve the skills effectively.

Anonymous said...

In my opinion, it is rather good. I like this topic because it helps me much. It provides me with the way to communicate in English successfully.

F5 said...

Thanks for all your comments, especially Nhu's ones. We have corrected the mistakes we made. Personally, our group has learnt lots of invaluable experience so that we won't make the same mistakes again.[Yen Nhu-F51C]

Anonymous said...

Oops! Nice 2 meet ya guys. It's unbelievable when knowing my ex-powerful monitor Thu Quynh now becomin' the last wife of unisex hubby ('cos she's called "con chong") (^_^). You guys are 5 beautiful flowers showing glamour and talent...Hope u all 2 be successful and achieve good results. I'm very happy if we can share our studying English experience to improve ourselves (though I'm now pursuing the Bachelor of Biomedical science programme...Hihi). God less you guys
Nhu

Captain Nemo said...

The only question I have: you have read all those books? You're the second to make me feel so ashamed of myself today. Hik hik...(Shark)